#3 Your excitement for the future – with her. A lot of this has to do with reassuring her that you want her in your future. That means she wants to hear you get excited about the future with her. You don’t have to tell her you want to get married by any means. All you have to do is just mention something you’re excited to do with her in the future. It can be a month from now or a year from now. No matter how soon it is, she’ll be happy to hear that you want her there.